I don’t ask for help if I can avoid it, and I take pride in my work, whatever it might be. I told my kids how, as a recruit in boot camp, I had to clean the latrine. The Drill Instructor came in, looked around, asked if he could drink safely from the commode . . Sir, Yes Sir! Will it make me puke, private? The DI will not puke, Sir! Thank God he didn’t ask me to drink it, because that I wouldn’t...